Hi! My name is Christy Chafe (CC-Mom) and I'm a friend, a daughter, a wife, a volunteer, a sometimes gym-member, a fake gourmet, a reader, a writer, a happy face, a TV addict, a singer, a Christian,
a loud fan of youth sports, too chatty for my own good, quick to say yes, too old to wear a mini skirt, a big fan of the 80’s, kind-hearted, easily wounded, a girl with the mouth of a sailor, loyal,
honest, and when you meet me, you may see all of these things all at once! I’m so grateful that you are here reading. Thank you for coming! I wonder, will you recongize yourself here? So, welcome to
this blog. There is truth here, and hopefully moments of grace. Come along with me on my journey. It’s different every day! I have three children (ages 16, 13, and 8) and one husband who are
subjected to all of the above on a regular basis. I live in Hudson, OH, where I have the best possible friends, a rich spiritual life in this church, and a happy home filled with baseball equipment,
ballet bags, magazines, books and pictures. I love my life!
1/23/2011 10:20 PMchristmas bells wrote:
Truly inspiring, touching and moving true stories. Every human being is a bunch of different life stories. Let us keep knowing and learning. Reply to this
12/14/2010 7:07 PM
Mom wrote:
Anxiously awaiting Sam's performance in the Christmas pageant next Friday. This truly is "The Next Best Thing to Being There"! Reply to this
11/29/2010 11:03 PM
Julie wrote:
You hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you for spelling it out in a wonderful and clear message. Hugs... Reply to this
9/21/2010 12:45 PM
Marsha McGregor wrote:
This is a very moving articulation of faith in discovery and action, and I'm glad I got to hear it delivered live. Reply to this
9/6/2010 11:56 AMFat Loss 4 Idiots wrote:
This is my first time at your blog and I've really enjoyed looking around. I will come back again in the future to check out some of the other articles. Reply to this
4/30/2010 10:14 AM
Cindy wrote:
I'm so glad you came on Thursday! Connectedness.......a great feeling - oh, and getting a work out too!! You know I love to multi-task!!! See you next time Reply to this
4/11/2010 1:49 PM
donna wrote:
For what it's worth....about a year ago a teenage relative (to remain nameless) was not very respectful to some adults we were eating dinner with. After dinner my 22 year old daughter said, "Remember when I was growing up and we would be in the car going to some public function and before you'd let me out of the car you would nag me about remembering appropriate behavior and I would roll my eyes at you after each reminder?.....well, thank you!" It takes our kids a while but most of them "get it" eventually! Reply to this
4/11/2010 1:22 PM
patty wrote:
10 years ago I was right where you are! I wish I could have written so beautifully how I felt ( as you did here). It is worth the taxi service, the lunch mom volunteering, and all the other stuff. My kids now grown and gone I know in my heart they bloomed into 2 wonderful considerate independent adults. It was worth the time and effort...their thanks have come in many forms. Reply to this
4/6/2010 3:54 PM
Jen wrote:
I stumbled on your post while doing a Google search for "You Are Enough". I just finished the same workout and, like you, was in tears during the cool down.
The song was indeed a great affirmation. Reply to this
3/23/2010 7:35 PM
Phyllis Ensign wrote:
Christy, I loved your story. I can relate to the allergy thing...I'm allergic to peanuts and their by- products. But what struck me most was your mention of Tom Lucky. I had a good laugh. I think all the girls in that confirmation class had a crush on him! Remember MPC Youth Group trips to the horse farm? One year I got stuck with a donkey... Rabbit, I think was it's name in honor of it's long ears. Thanks for the memories....from your confirmation classmate, Phyllis (Hettesheimer) Ensign PS-I got to your blog via Nancy's FB post. Reply to this
3/8/2010 11:06 AM
Crystal wrote:
You have done it again...I am waiting for you to publish the entire "Journey" book! I have been on a spiritual journey since leaving SW, I would like to share some of my thoughts with you sometime, Christy. Perhaps we can do lunch one day. I would love that! Reply to this
2/26/2010 4:00 AMBlanks wrote:
Christy, WOW! We don't think you understand how much your blog post means and how much we needed to read your amazing words about us. So encouraging!!! We thank you so much. We are very grateful.Grateful that in some small way we could be a Blessing to you and you in turn have been a HUGE Blessing to us. Thank you again for your kindness. God Bless, Sharon and Billy Blanks Jr. Reply to this
1/22/2010 9:05 PM
marsha wrote:
Your post resonated with me so much, Christy, not only because of its authentic expression but because I was writing today of swimming in the deep end myself, wondering what God might have in store for me there. Uncanny. Always glad to see these notes from the journey. Reply to this
12/18/2009 5:07 PM
patty wrote:
Beautifully written Christy. Funny how those "God moments" happen in hospitals. Reflection after the passage of time can be so insightful. Thank you for sharing this. Reply to this
12/16/2009 7:25 PMEmily Price Britt wrote:
Christy - Wow. I read your story, and am wiping my eyes...listening to ave' maria...my heart is with you as you celebrate your family. Hug those babies, everyday. Thank you for the reminder to love the blooming garden that is within the walls of home and know we are blessed. Thanks again for gifting us with your writing. Yours - Emily Reply to this
Wow. Your story brought me to tears. Thanks for sharing a true Christmas miracle. God bless. Stefanie Reply to this
12/15/2009 6:21 PM
Nancy wrote:
Christy ~ what a scary ordeal - i didn't know before this day, but now am Thanking the Good Lord for you... I can't even imagine the fear and absolute horror you felt when you first saw your son after the surgery that day... I've had my own child in an emergency surgery, tho it didn't take this type of turn. I am thankful that you shared, and wish you and your entire BEAUTIFUL family a joyous Christmas- Nancy Reply to this
10/12/2009 11:25 AM
dee wrote:
Hi Christy, Tough one, isn't it? I was told the same thing with Brad. I have to tell you, though, Christy- it was the best advice I have ever been given. I believe Brad grew in so many ways because I was told to let him fail. That huge change in my parenting style made him grow towards his potential. We learn so much with our first one- just imagine if we had 20 of them! XO Dee (Not that I am suggesting that!) Reply to this
10/11/2009 8:11 PM
marsha m wrote:
Surely every mom can relate to this ongoing challenge of parenting, which seems to just keep taking different forms as they grow. Thanks for your thoughtful words. Reply to this
10/11/2009 6:35 PM
patty wrote:
Dr. Hornick has been one of our doctors too! Allowing your child to make their own decisions on their life and how they live it is so valuable, especially if they make those decisions at a time in their lives when it is appropriate. Jono may not realize how lucky he is to have you as a parent and Dr. Hornick as his physician...what a gift! Reply to this
9/16/2009 6:28 AMChris Brown wrote:
Hi Christy: Thanks so much for posting info about the Women's Health Fair on your blog. I think it's going to be a wonderful day with all the activities, speakers and exhibits!! Chris Reply to this
8/17/2009 8:17 AM
Diana Taussig wrote:
Christy, These entries are beautiful! (and funny too!) Love your stories.See the movie Julie and Julia, you'll get even more inspired! Sorry I haven't visited more often. You, Lisa and Cindy are in my thoughts Diana Reply to this
8/12/2009 8:59 AM
Sue wrote:
Christy, Right on! We need to read this each day for inspiration as well as a reminder. You are SO ready for the Stew Crew!!!! Reply to this
This was a beautiful piece. Keep writing, you have wonderful bits of wisdom coming out in your writing. Could you add my sister to your email distribution list:
7/29/2009 5:39 PM
Anne Gallagher wrote:
This is really, really good, Christy! A nice message written in a clever, breezy style that's fun to read. I pray that your friend, Lisa, can fight off her cancer. -- Anne Gallagher Reply to this
7/14/2009 9:04 AM
SueAnn Schmidt wrote:
Christy, this is so right on - and write on too! This journey is NOT one we want to take - but you and Cindy are so up for it. I know you will be her treasure and her gift. God is working with you on this! SueAnn Reply to this
7/9/2009 12:43 PM
Beth wrote:
Beautifully written! Lisa is lucky to have you on her team during this challenge - you have a gift of always knowing the right thing to say! Sending all involved prayers and good wishes for a speedy return to good health and normalcy Reply to this
7/8/2009 10:26 AM
Sue wrote:
Wow, I am blown away by your message today, Christy. Lisa is in a place that scares me. Having you and Cindy beside her, bringing her comfort and making her world not so scarey is fabulous! We all need to be the soft, warm and fuzzy comfort for others whose world is cold and prickly right now. You rock!!!! Reply to this
7/8/2009 7:35 AM
Lisa wrote:
You forgot to mention how Kitten tried to turn around and take us back to Beachwood Mall. 'Recalculate' 'Recalculate' 'Head back to Nordstrom' 'Or at the very least, Crate and Barrel' Reply to this
7/8/2009 4:26 PM
CC-Mom wrote:
How could I forget?? If only she would have taken us back to Origins-- I could have avoided the whole blush escapade. Kitten. . .Recalculate and help me avoid make-up disasters in the future
6/17/2009 8:29 PM
Rick wrote:
Ok, so today, after a brutal week (wait, it's just Wednesday), I had the last two ends of Kirsten's Christmas uber-Toblerone, (the BIG one), on the way to get Hayley - just before dinner.
If they did that for communion I'd go more often.
"Rick, This is his heavenly mixture of cocoa, chopped almonds, honey, cane sugar, and fresh Swiss dairy, given for you to avoid admitting your sins." "Thank you Father. Amen"
Then I had birthday cake...no i have a couple more years before THAT big one.
Now you've got me thinking about getting a "sleeve" of Arrowroot cookies...they're for babies for goodness sake, they're practically vegetables.
How's that Canada calendar planning coming? We have Crunchie , Crispy Crucnh and Mr. Big you recall. Reply to this
6/16/2009 3:28 PMNancy wrote:
Christy~ I know I've said before (on Facebook) but wanted to reiterate how much I love this blog. It is soo nice to read your humorous, yet real and inspiring take on the everyday. It even made my 3-day stress-of-a-graduating-senior head ah-cha-cha feel much better. I think it was the subtle smiles and girlie giggles that happened while reading this.
Thank you - may your journey continue to be rewarding both for you and all of us who read along! Reply to this
6/11/2009 12:08 PM
Dee wrote:
lllllooooooovvvvvveeeee it! I, myself, have absolutely no idea what you were talking about- but I love the whole idea of it (where are those chocolate chip cookies???!!!) XO Dee Reply to this
5/5/2009 8:11 AM
Adi Nulsen wrote:
I hear you sister! If one more of my students approaches my desk while coughing loudly into the air- I think I'm going to scream! Oh summer... take me away! Reply to this
4/14/2009 3:21 PM
RN-Uncle wrote:
Like cousin, like cousin...we found that a 5-year old Samsung that was originally a free phone makes for a viable, though not very glamorous, replacement for the one left in the pocket while streaking up and down the street in roller blades.
There are grumblings about repairing his broken phone, though, and I can't blame him. I like the idea of assigning domestic jobs to work it off. You must come from a family blessed with wisdom... Reply to this
4/14/2009 1:57 PM
Dee wrote:
This one gave me a little chill and filled my eyes. That's what we want for our children, isn't it? Learning their lessons softly and gently- with things that can't be mended easily perhaps never happening to them...we can only pray it to be so! Reply to this
3/31/2009 10:21 PM
Brother Jimmy wrote:
Funny stuff, Sister! "What in the heck did we do right before Spring Break? Eat all the mustard and print lots of documents?" I literally L'dOL at that one Reply to this
3/24/2009 10:31 AM
Rick wrote:
Christy Kate is a nag...pray for her husband, for he cannot turn the set, and thus her, off.
I love onions, and I am alone in this at home. When we get together, we will have lots of onions, but no green peppers (oops).
Adam practices his grip when there is no room to swing. Always. At stoplights. Yes, I notice these things. Is it wrong that i don't? Is that why he outshoots me by 30? Regardless, when we visit...I end up swinging stuff...sorry.
Maybe I'll swing a bag of onions. That's my weakness, always trying to please everyone.
4 hour layover at Cleveland airport was worse knowing we had a chance to connect-soon. Miss you guys. Reply to this
2/6/2009 3:12 PMLinda wrote:
What a great question to think about, "Am I struggling with my faith, or is my faith struggling with me?"
We all go through difficult patches, and this is a good way to think about what may be going on. Reply to this
1/15/2009 1:00 PM
Kim wrote:
So funny!! My 8 year-old woke up yesterday morning after flushing an ice cube down the toilet and wearing her pjs backwards and inside-out and was incensed that there wasn't a snow day because she was "uncomfortable all night" in her backwards pjs. She felt like she really took one for the team to no avail!! Reply to this
1/15/2009 12:46 PM
Rick wrote:
Christy, As you know, Christmas is the big holiday up here, (vs. Thanksgiving), and they say it is the highest stress time of the year. We complain about travel, especially given our uncertain weather, moan about "who's turn it is", juggle in/out-law commitments, and generally talk about getting through it. Until you are together, as you write, and it's all worthwhile...still nuts, but worthwhile. This year it was our "off year" so the Matthews clan gathered on Christmas Eve. As this is our last year being the central location, we offered to host one more time, with a wrinkle, no one will cook. So off to Mandarin Chinese Buffet we go, 15 of us, 1 Grand-Nana,(96), 1 Nana, 6 parents, 7 kids,(the dogs, including two puppies were unfortunately not welcome), for a combination birthday party for my kid brother and Christmas wrapped into one. (Going chinese for his Dec 24 b-day became a family tradition prior to our weddings, so as not to lose it amongst the rest of the season. Somehow his birthday is always celebrated now, while none of ours are - I digress.) So anyway, after doing gifts, nibblees and cocktails at my place, tromping off to the restaurant, Sue falling on the steps, avoiding landing on her broken thumb from her prior stumble and breaking her fall with her nose, Sue spending 15 minutes in the restroom to clean up and stop the bleeding, we ended up having a grand time doing the big buffet among the hundreds of others who apprently though the place would be empty as well, and another unique "memory made" as you point out. Thanks for making me re-appreciate the crazy things we go through for the not-so-crazy reasons. Missing you guys. Reply to this
1/8/2009 12:47 PM
Jimmy wrote:
Dinner was wonderful, and we're looking forward to our next trip to Hudson. Hopefully we'll get to stay in town for more than 20 hours! Reply to this
12/10/2008 10:43 AM
Dee wrote:
Tricky...loved this one, Christy. Christmas is just...all of that, isn't it? But we do so love it all! XO Reply to this
11/29/2008 9:29 AM
Jenn wrote:
Brilliant! As always!! Will there be Vodka at Christmas? You know along with the air and water? Reply to this
11/24/2008 10:59 PM
Cindy wrote:
I loved this blog!!! Yes, with God all things are possible - and what wonderful possibilities & opportunities he's provided! Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Cin Reply to this
11/7/2008 5:18 PM
Kim wrote:
I'm so proud of you and your new freelance job!! Congrats...what a great thing to have something that you are so good and talented at be called "work"!! Reply to this
10/17/2008 12:10 AM
marianne wrote:
schools think up the most difficult supplies each year to make parents crazy. for us, it is LARGE book covers. they sell out august 12th and don't get any more in. it is wrong. thanks for the laughs! Reply to this
10/16/2008 10:54 PM
marianne wrote:
what a beautiful story about both a beautiful mother and daughter - in heart and appearance ...you've always been beautiful! Reply to this
10/8/2008 4:44 PM
Brother Jimes wrote:
I can totally see how he might have almost picked "Don't Stop Believing" as a song he identifies with. For one, he's a city boy - born and raised in South Detroit. Also, I know he likes to take midnight trains to pretty much anywhere...!
10/5/2008 8:02 AM
Margrita J wrote:
Chrisy--What a wonderful story--and a wonderful gift you gave your daughter, and she to you. That's what it's all about... Reply to this
9/25/2008 6:54 PM
Connie wrote:
Christy, you really must stop making me cry at my computer. (but I hope you never do!) wibderful. love c Reply to this
9/20/2008 7:44 PM
Susan Smith wrote:
C- I laughed out LOUD at this one! I only have children in grade one and grade three and every year my children have a school supply list that specifically says NO TRAPPER KEEPERS. What is their problem with Trappers I think? I loved mine in school! But then this year, I laughed so hard at my friend's sixth grader supply list that said he needed a TRAPPER!!! I guess they are evil only through 5th grade!
Glad to see the update on the running! Keep it up girl! My feet have been hurting so I've taken a bit of a break. But good for you!!!!!
You can do the women's only triathlon with me next year!!! Reply to this
(The above is supposed to rhyme with "sister" - not "heister.")
Just wanted to drop a line to let you know that I'm picking up what you're putting down - I love taking a quick break from work to read bits and pieces from one of my favorite authors! Your tag-line might be "For a Mom's Faith," but there's good stuff in here for everyone.
7/29/2008 9:51 AM
Dee wrote:
Hi Christy- just got up to date with the blog. Loved the new entries. Tom Lucky... Have you read the book Waterbugs and Dragonflies? We have it here at church. I read it at my dear grandmother's funeral. Read it- you'll love it. XO Reply to this
7/23/2008 8:16 AM
Cindy wrote:
I love this blog!!! Why does running look so easy for some - it's not for me ....why not? children do it everyday......why can't I do it without my knees aching?!? Why don't I loose 5 lbs a week? These are hard questions.......I guess the answer is just to RUN, GIRL, RUN! Love you - Cin Reply to this
I did the couch to 5k program last summer! I had NEVER run a 5k before and I did it! Follow the program and DON'T skip ahead and it will work. Good luck! Good for you!!!!
7/15/2008 3:11 PM
Lisa wrote:
You can do anything you put your mind to, girlie! Love the blog, love the running, love the birthday girl! I like to say, "I only run if someone is chasing me with a knife." But, you know I'd run anywhere with you...knife and all. Reply to this
7/14/2008 10:11 AM
adam wrote:
Yes... welcome home Beth. You really have soared, and we love you even more for it. Reply to this
6/8/2008 7:10 AM
Cindy wrote:
I loved this blog!! Friendship - the tie that binds us all together - spending time together, raising these crazy kids, and enjoying it all with friends! Thank you for being a friend! Reply to this
6/5/2008 11:16 AM
Missy wrote:
Hi Christy, I love your blog; thank you for letting me know about it...Scott just had a 40th birthday party for me and it was so neat to see all of the people on the roads of my life coming together in one spot--unfortunately, since it was in New England, I did not get a chance to toast 40 (or my second annual 39th) with "my high school people" but always think of the MHS crowd with a smile. I will continue to check in on you and your writing! With love, one of your red friends and another Mom of 3! Reply to this
5/31/2008 9:40 AM
Cousin Amy wrote:
Christy, I had just prepared for the day...misting with my REstoring Mist Toner, dabbing on the REpair Corrective eye creme, followed by the REversing Gelee Transforming Lift, and finally my REality SPF 8 Day Creme. I'm so glad I'm not a sucker for marketing ploys like you are...(smile). 'Loved your thoughts! XOXO -Amy Reply to this
5/29/2008 12:07 PM
Ellen Boriin wrote:
This is a perfect poem to represent the month of May for Moms of school-aged kids (I've got two!). Reply to this
5/24/2008 9:01 PM
Cindy Rocco wrote:
Keep living out loud for sure!! That's part of what makes you, YOU!! I love the blog!! Reply to this
I find it fascinating that you recognize my love of life (particularly my own), because that recognition indicates that you love your life too. We are lucky, lucky people to be surrounded by those we adore.
Your mother and I are lucky times two since we get to enjoy your "journey" as well as our own. We've been with you from the start (your mother's labor will long be remembered) and other than four flat (crushed) tires on "Sally the Sentra" and overt "Jimmy jealousy" i.e., I didn't get a car when I was 16, etc., the journey has been very exciting (Grease and all the other stage shows, monumental (first wedding, first grandchild), and satisfying (your personal growth). There is no one on this planet that can make me laugh like you can. To the point of utter helplessness. The way you write... the ability to express yourself so clearly and cleverly...enables you to show all of us how much you care.
5/23/2008 8:04 PM
Your Mom wrote:
I love your journey, and how blessed I am to have been with you since it began...when you took your first, determined steps. You are my daughter, I am your mother and we will forever be best friends. Have fun on the rest of your journey..I know I will! I love you, Mom Reply to this
5/22/2008 9:30 PM
Lisa wrote:
Christy--i LOVE your playlist and may even get motivated to figure out how to categorize my ridiculous collection into playlists....watch out now that i know of your technical expertise in that arena!! Reply to this
5/22/2008 5:14 PM
Dee Buchanan wrote:
Christy, LOVED this one, too. I am so pleased that you are doing this. You can put into words the things that I think and feel- but could never write for myself. Thank you (for you!) Dee Reply to this
5/22/2008 4:06 PMAnonymous wrote:
Sounds like it was a scary experience. I'm glad it turned out okay - and now you're aware of the situation. That's the good be gleaned from the scary. And trying to view things from the perspective of others - another eye opening lesson.
Hope all is well now and proceeding back to normal (or as normal as it gets, right?) Reply to this
5/19/2008 7:15 AMChris Brown wrote:
Christy: That's exactly how I was feeling this past month -- I see from the day that you wrote it 2 years ago, but funny, it still matches my feelings about May!! thanks for sharing, Chris Brown Reply to this
5/1/2008 10:05 AM
SueAnn Schmidt wrote:
Hi Christy! Loved the story about dad! I remember my daughter being embarrassed when I "danced" in front of her friends. Then the friends decided to coin the phrase, "Look, your mom is doing 'The Sue'. So I started a new dance craze for the kids in her school - called The Sue! Such fun! I also had an image of your dad, since I've met him - and it is great to think of his love of life! Reply to this
Truly inspiring, touching and moving true stories. Every human being is a bunch of different life stories. Let us keep knowing and learning.
Reply to this
I find myself coming to your blog more and more often to the point where my visits are almost daily now!
Reply to this
Anxiously awaiting Sam's performance in the Christmas pageant next Friday. This truly is "The Next Best Thing to Being There"!
Reply to this
You hit the nail on the head for me. Thank you for spelling it out in a wonderful and clear message. Hugs...
Reply to this
This is a very moving articulation of faith in discovery and action, and I'm glad I got to hear it delivered live.
Reply to this
This is my first time at your blog and I've really enjoyed looking around. I will come back again in the future to check out some of the other articles.
Reply to this
I love this. Love it.
Reply to this
I'm so glad you came on Thursday! Connectedness.......a great feeling - oh, and getting a work out too!! You know I love to multi-task!!! See you next time
Reply to this
For what it's worth....about a year ago a teenage relative (to remain nameless) was not very respectful to some adults we were eating dinner with. After dinner my 22 year old daughter said, "Remember when I was growing up and we would be in the car going to some public function and before you'd let me out of the car you would nag me about remembering appropriate behavior and I would roll my eyes at you after each reminder?.....well, thank you!"
It takes our kids a while but most of them "get it" eventually!
Reply to this
10 years ago I was right where you are! I wish I could have written so beautifully how I felt ( as you did here). It is worth the taxi service, the lunch mom volunteering, and all the other stuff. My kids now grown and gone I know in my heart they bloomed into 2 wonderful considerate independent adults. It was worth the time and effort...their thanks have come in many forms.
Reply to this
I stumbled on your post while doing a Google search for "You Are Enough". I just finished the same workout and, like you, was in tears during the cool down.
The song was indeed a great affirmation.
Reply to this
Christy, I loved your story. I can relate to the allergy thing...I'm allergic to peanuts and their by- products. But what struck me most was your mention of Tom Lucky. I had a good laugh. I think all the girls in that confirmation class had a crush on him! Remember MPC Youth Group trips to the horse farm? One year I got stuck with a donkey... Rabbit, I think was it's name in honor of it's long ears. Thanks for the memories....from your confirmation classmate, Phyllis (Hettesheimer) Ensign
PS-I got to your blog via Nancy's FB post.
Reply to this
Lovely meditation, and inspiring.
Reply to this
You have done it again...I am waiting for you to publish the entire "Journey" book! I have been on a spiritual journey since leaving SW, I would like to share some of my thoughts with you sometime, Christy. Perhaps we can do lunch one day. I would love that!
Reply to this
Wow!
Reply to this
Christy,
WOW! We don't think you understand how much your blog post means and how much we needed to read your amazing words about us. So encouraging!!! We thank you so much. We are very grateful.Grateful that in some small way we could be a Blessing to you and you in turn have been a HUGE Blessing to us. Thank you again for your kindness.
God Bless,
Sharon and Billy Blanks Jr.
Reply to this
Great to hear you loved the workout. Check out more great workouts (that might surprise you again!) on our website at www.exercisetv.tv
Reply to this
Christy:
Blessings. Hearing this makes me count my blessings.
What a powerful post, you captured the intensity of the feelings so I felt like I was right there.
Thanks for sharing it.
Chris Brown
Reply to this
Your post resonated with me so much, Christy, not only because of its authentic expression but because I was writing today of swimming in the deep end myself, wondering what God might have in store for me there. Uncanny. Always glad to see these notes from the journey.
Reply to this
Beautifully written Christy. Funny how those "God moments" happen in hospitals. Reflection after the passage of time can be so insightful. Thank you for sharing this.
Reply to this
Christy -
Wow. I read your story, and am wiping my eyes...listening to ave' maria...my heart is with you as you celebrate your family. Hug those babies, everyday. Thank you for the reminder to love the blooming garden that is within the walls of home and know we are blessed. Thanks again for gifting us with your writing. Yours -
Emily
Reply to this
Christy,
Wow. Your story brought me to tears.
Thanks for sharing a true Christmas miracle.
God bless.
Stefanie
Reply to this
Christy ~ what a scary ordeal - i didn't know before this day, but now am Thanking the Good Lord for you... I can't even imagine the fear and absolute horror you felt when you first saw your son after the surgery that day... I've had my own child in an emergency surgery, tho it didn't take this type of turn. I am thankful that you shared, and wish you and your entire BEAUTIFUL family a joyous Christmas-
Nancy
Reply to this
>Wish me luck
Good luck, Christy. Sounds like you are well on your way!
Meg
Reply to this
Christy,
You are honoring a God-given gift: The power to reach others through the written word.
We need to talk! My writing critique group needs a new member, and something is telling me that person is you!
I miss our group at the library with Marsha. Writers need connections, otherwise we just might go nuts sitting in front of the computer all day!
Thanks for reminding me to work on my novel!!!
Write on!
-Stefanie
Reply to this
Good luck! You can do it!
Reply to this
I love it! Good luck conquering your word counter!
Words > Math.
Reply to this
Hi Christy,
Tough one, isn't it? I was told the same thing with Brad. I have to tell you, though, Christy- it was the best advice I have ever been given. I believe Brad grew in so many ways because I was told to let him fail. That huge change in my parenting style made him grow towards his potential.
We learn so much with our first one- just imagine if we had 20 of them!
XO
Dee
(Not that I am suggesting that!)
Reply to this
Surely every mom can relate to this ongoing challenge of parenting, which seems to just keep taking different forms as they grow. Thanks for your thoughtful words.
Reply to this
Dr. Hornick has been one of our doctors too! Allowing your child to make their own decisions on their life and how they live it is so valuable, especially if they make those decisions at a time in their lives when it is appropriate. Jono may not realize how lucky he is to have you as a parent and Dr. Hornick as his physician...what a gift!
Reply to this
Love it! As usual, every emotion in one little story...Amazing! Thank you!!
Reply to this
Hi Christy:
Thanks so much for posting info about the Women's Health Fair on your blog. I think it's going to be a wonderful day with all the activities, speakers and exhibits!!
Chris
Reply to this
Christy, These entries are beautiful! (and funny too!) Love your stories.See the movie Julie and Julia, you'll get even more inspired! Sorry I haven't visited more often. You, Lisa and Cindy are in my thoughts
Diana
Reply to this
Christy,
Right on! We need to read this each day for inspiration as well as a reminder. You are SO ready for the Stew Crew!!!!
Reply to this
Christy:
This was a beautiful piece. Keep writing, you have wonderful bits of wisdom coming out in your writing. Could you add my sister to your email distribution list:
parrylemon@embarqmail.com
Thank you!
Patty
Reply to this
This is really, really good, Christy! A nice message written in a clever, breezy style that's fun to read. I pray that your friend, Lisa, can fight off her cancer. -- Anne Gallagher
Reply to this
Christy, this is so right on - and write on too! This journey is NOT one we want to take - but you and Cindy are so up for it. I know you will be her treasure and her gift. God is working with you on this! SueAnn
Reply to this
Beautifully written! Lisa is lucky to have you on her team during this challenge - you have a gift of always knowing the right thing to say! Sending all involved prayers and good wishes for a speedy return to good health and normalcy
Reply to this
beautiful!
Reply to this
Wow, I am blown away by your message today, Christy. Lisa is in a place that scares me. Having you and Cindy beside her, bringing her comfort and making her world not so scarey is fabulous! We all need to be the soft, warm and fuzzy comfort for others whose world is cold and prickly right now. You rock!!!!
Reply to this
Thank you. For Driving Miss Lisa and for EVERY day. xoxo
Reply to this
Anytime, sister. Anything. xxoo
Reply to this
You forgot to mention how Kitten tried to turn around and take us back to Beachwood Mall.
'Recalculate' 'Recalculate'
'Head back to Nordstrom'
'Or at the very least, Crate and Barrel'
Reply to this
How could I forget??
If only she would have taken us back to Origins-- I could have avoided the whole blush escapade.
Kitten. . .Recalculate and help me avoid make-up disasters in the future
Reply to this
Ok, so today, after a brutal week (wait, it's just Wednesday), I had the last two ends of Kirsten's Christmas uber-Toblerone, (the BIG one), on the way to get Hayley - just before dinner.
If they did that for communion I'd go more often.
"Rick, This is his heavenly mixture of cocoa, chopped almonds, honey, cane sugar, and fresh Swiss dairy, given for you to avoid admitting your sins."
"Thank you Father. Amen"
Then I had birthday cake...no i have a couple more years before THAT big one.
Now you've got me thinking about getting a "sleeve" of Arrowroot cookies...they're for babies for goodness sake, they're practically vegetables.
How's that Canada calendar planning coming? We have Crunchie , Crispy Crucnh and Mr. Big you recall.
Reply to this
Christy~
I know I've said before (on Facebook) but wanted to reiterate how much I love this blog. It is soo nice to read your humorous, yet real and inspiring take on the everyday. It even made my 3-day stress-of-a-graduating-senior head ah-cha-cha feel much better. I think it was the subtle smiles and girlie giggles that happened while reading this.
Thank you - may your journey continue to be rewarding both for you and all of us who read along!
Reply to this
You nailed it again Christy. Thanks for the reminder.
Reply to this
lllllooooooovvvvvveeeee it!
I, myself, have absolutely no idea what you were talking about- but I love the whole idea of it
XO
Dee
Reply to this
I hear you sister! If one more of my students approaches my desk while coughing loudly into the air- I think I'm going to scream! Oh summer... take me away!
Reply to this
absolutely lovely.
Reply to this
Like cousin, like cousin...we found that a 5-year old Samsung that was originally a free phone makes for a viable, though not very glamorous, replacement for the one left in the pocket while streaking up and down the street in roller blades.
There are grumblings about repairing his broken phone, though, and I can't blame him. I like the idea of assigning domestic jobs to work it off. You must come from a family blessed with wisdom...
Reply to this
This one gave me a little chill and filled my eyes. That's what we want for our children, isn't it? Learning their lessons softly and gently- with things that can't be mended easily perhaps never happening to them...we can only pray it to be so!
Reply to this
One of my favorites- and oh how true (sigh)...
Reply to this
Funny stuff, Sister! "What in the heck did we do right before Spring Break? Eat all the mustard and print lots of documents?" I literally L'dOL at that one
Reply to this
Christy
Kate is a nag...pray for her husband, for he cannot turn the set, and thus her, off.
I love onions, and I am alone in this at home. When we get together, we will have lots of onions, but no green peppers (oops).
Adam practices his grip when there is no room to swing. Always. At stoplights. Yes, I notice these things. Is it wrong that i don't? Is that why he outshoots me by 30?
Regardless, when we visit...I end up swinging stuff...sorry.
Maybe I'll swing a bag of onions. That's my weakness, always trying to please everyone.
4 hour layover at Cleveland airport was worse knowing we had a chance to connect-soon.
Miss you guys.
Reply to this
This is so funny and well written!
Reply to this
What a great question to think about, "Am I struggling with my faith, or is my faith struggling with me?"
We all go through difficult patches, and this is a good way to think about what may be going on.
Reply to this
So funny!! My 8 year-old woke up yesterday morning after flushing an ice cube down the toilet and wearing her pjs backwards and inside-out and was incensed that there wasn't a snow day because she was "uncomfortable all night" in her backwards pjs. She felt like she really took one for the team to no avail!!
Reply to this
Christy,
As you know, Christmas is the big holiday up here, (vs. Thanksgiving), and they say it is the highest stress time of the year. We complain about travel, especially given our uncertain weather, moan about "who's turn it is", juggle in/out-law commitments, and generally talk about getting through it. Until you are together, as you write, and it's all worthwhile...still nuts, but worthwhile.
This year it was our "off year" so the Matthews clan gathered on Christmas Eve. As this is our last year being the central location, we offered to host one more time, with a wrinkle, no one will cook.
So off to Mandarin Chinese Buffet we go, 15 of us, 1 Grand-Nana,(96), 1 Nana, 6 parents, 7 kids,(the dogs, including two puppies were unfortunately not welcome), for a combination birthday party for my kid brother and Christmas wrapped into one. (Going chinese for his Dec 24 b-day became a family tradition prior to our weddings, so as not to lose it amongst the rest of the season. Somehow his birthday is always celebrated now, while none of ours are - I digress.)
So anyway, after doing gifts, nibblees and cocktails at my place, tromping off to the restaurant, Sue falling on the steps, avoiding landing on her broken thumb from her prior stumble and breaking her fall with her nose, Sue spending 15 minutes in the restroom to clean up and stop the bleeding, we ended up having a grand time doing the big buffet among the hundreds of others who apprently though the place would be empty as well, and another unique "memory made" as you point out.
Thanks for making me re-appreciate the crazy things we go through for the not-so-crazy reasons.
Missing you guys.
Reply to this
Great one, Christy! I can hear your voice in your words. I especially loved the ending- it gave me a big giggle.
Reply to this
Dinner was wonderful, and we're looking forward to our next trip to Hudson. Hopefully we'll get to stay in town for more than 20 hours!
Reply to this
Tricky...loved this one, Christy. Christmas is just...all of that, isn't it? But we do so love it all! XO
Reply to this
Brilliant! As always!!
Will there be Vodka at Christmas? You know along with the air and water?
Reply to this
I loved this blog!!! Yes, with God all things are possible - and what wonderful possibilities & opportunities he's provided! Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Cin
Reply to this
I'm so proud of you and your new freelance job!! Congrats...what a great thing to have something that you are so good and talented at be called "work"!!
Reply to this
How true! I think every mother (and father) can relate.
Reply to this
schools think up the most difficult supplies each year to make parents crazy. for us, it is LARGE book covers. they sell out august 12th and don't get any more in. it is wrong. thanks for the laughs!
Reply to this
what a beautiful story about both a beautiful mother and daughter - in heart and appearance
Reply to this
I can totally see how he might have almost picked "Don't Stop Believing" as a song he identifies with. For one, he's a city boy - born and raised in South Detroit. Also, I know he likes to take midnight trains to pretty much anywhere...!
Reply to this
Chrisy--What a wonderful story--and a wonderful gift you gave your daughter, and she to you. That's what it's all about...
Reply to this
Christy, you really must stop making me cry at my computer. (but I hope you never do!)
wibderful. love c
Reply to this
C- I laughed out LOUD at this one! I only have children in grade one and grade three and every year my children have a school supply list that specifically says NO TRAPPER KEEPERS. What is their problem with Trappers I think? I loved mine in school! But then this year, I laughed so hard at my friend's sixth grader supply list that said he needed a TRAPPER!!! I guess they are evil only through 5th grade!
Glad to see the update on the running! Keep it up girl! My feet have been hurting so I've taken a bit of a break. But good for you!!!!!
You can do the women's only triathlon with me next year!!!
Reply to this
Keep running, Christy!! Wow, running as a team. That is love!
Reply to this
Hello Christer!
(The above is supposed to rhyme with "sister" - not "heister.")
Just wanted to drop a line to let you know that I'm picking up what you're putting down - I love taking a quick break from work to read bits and pieces from one of my favorite authors! Your tag-line might be "For a Mom's Faith," but there's good stuff in here for everyone.
Hope to see you soon!
Love,
Jimmy
Reply to this
Hi Christy- just got up to date with the blog. Loved the new entries. Tom Lucky...
Have you read the book Waterbugs and Dragonflies? We have it here at church. I read it at my dear grandmother's funeral. Read it- you'll love it.
XO
Reply to this
I love this blog!!! Why does running look so easy for some - it's not for me ....why not? children do it everyday......why can't I do it without my knees aching?!? Why don't I loose 5 lbs a week? These are hard questions.......I guess the answer is just to RUN, GIRL, RUN! Love you - Cin
Reply to this
Christy,
I did the couch to 5k program last summer! I had NEVER run a 5k before and I did it! Follow the program and DON'T skip ahead and it will work. Good luck! Good for you!!!!
Susan Smith
Reply to this
You can do anything you put your mind to, girlie! Love the blog, love the running, love the birthday girl!
I like to say, "I only run if someone is chasing me with a knife." But, you know I'd run anywhere with you...knife and all.
Reply to this
Yes... welcome home Beth. You really have soared, and we love you even more for it.
Reply to this
I loved this blog!! Friendship - the tie that binds us all together - spending time together, raising these crazy kids, and enjoying it all with friends! Thank you for being a friend!
Reply to this
Hi Christy,
I love your blog; thank you for letting me know about it...Scott just had a 40th birthday party for me and it was so neat to see all of the people on the roads of my life coming together in one spot--unfortunately, since it was in New England, I did not get a chance to toast 40 (or my second annual 39th) with "my high school people" but always think of the MHS crowd with a smile. I will continue to check in on you and your writing! With love, one of your red friends and another Mom of 3!
Reply to this
Christy,
I had just prepared for the day...misting with my REstoring Mist Toner, dabbing on the REpair Corrective eye creme, followed by the REversing Gelee Transforming Lift, and finally my REality SPF 8 Day Creme. I'm so glad I'm not a sucker for marketing ploys like you are...(smile). 'Loved your thoughts! XOXO -Amy
Reply to this
This is a perfect poem to represent the month of May for Moms of school-aged kids (I've got two!).
Reply to this
Keep living out loud for sure!! That's part of what makes you, YOU!! I love the blog!!
Reply to this
Honey...This is your father.
I find it fascinating that you recognize my love of life (particularly my own), because that recognition indicates that you love your life too. We are lucky, lucky people to be surrounded by those we adore.
Your mother and I are lucky times two since we get to enjoy your "journey" as well as our own. We've been with you from the start (your mother's labor will long be remembered) and other than four flat (crushed) tires on "Sally the Sentra" and overt "Jimmy jealousy" i.e., I didn't get a car when I was 16, etc., the journey has been very exciting (Grease and all the other stage shows, monumental (first wedding, first grandchild), and satisfying (your personal growth). There is no one on this planet that can make me laugh like you can. To the point of utter helplessness. The way you write... the ability to express yourself so clearly and cleverly...enables you to show all of us how much you care.
Thank you,
This is your father.
Reply to this
I love your journey, and how blessed I am to have been with you since it began...when you took your first, determined steps. You are my daughter, I am your mother and we will forever be best friends. Have fun on the rest of your journey..I know I will!
I love you,
Mom
Reply to this
Christy--i LOVE your playlist and may even get motivated to figure out how to categorize my ridiculous collection into playlists....watch out now that i know of your technical expertise in that arena!!
Reply to this
I am ready to take the journey with you!
Lead on!
Reply to this
Christy, LOVED this one, too. I am so pleased that you are doing this. You can put into words the things that I think and feel- but could never write for myself. Thank you (for you!)
Dee
Reply to this
Sounds like it was a scary experience. I'm glad it turned out okay - and now you're aware of the situation. That's the good be gleaned from the scary. And trying to view things from the perspective of others - another eye opening lesson.
Hope all is well now and proceeding back to normal (or as normal as it gets, right?)
Reply to this
Christy:
That's exactly how I was feeling this past month -- I see from the day that you wrote it 2 years ago, but funny, it still matches my feelings about May!!
thanks for sharing,
Chris Brown
Reply to this
Hi Christy! Loved the story about dad! I remember my daughter being embarrassed when I "danced" in front of her friends. Then the friends decided to coin the phrase, "Look, your mom is doing 'The Sue'. So I started a new dance craze for the kids in her school - called The Sue! Such fun! I also had an image of your dad, since I've met him - and it is great to think of his love of life!
Reply to this